i took the board into the shop today. Bream took a close look at the wheel and noticed the casing for the bearing was still in it. verdict is i blew the bearing which caused the truck to hit the ground and spin the nut off allowing the wheel to come off.
he taught me a little more about about what to look for when the bearings are going bad.
falling isnt good, but i got kudus for skating enough in a short period of time to blow out my bearing. extra kudus because my wheels are coning nicely.